Jottings:
Idle And Otherwise
By MRJ
IN THIS age of girl
empowerment specially in America, it is odd but revealing that more than ever before
American women are being subjected to increasingly limiting, even demeaning, standards of
physical beautydetermined by men.
CRAVING EMPATHY: Thus, as
a story in the Los Angeles Times on Linda Tripp and Monica Lewinsky makes out, the duo
associated in the sex scandal that nearly toppled the Clinton presidency are now doing
public penance, not by taking up charitable causes but in search of outer beauty and
craving for public empathy.
Tripp, one is informed,
has undergone extensive plastic surgery involving a nose job, chin tuck, neck
reduction, facial peel and liposuctionin order to ready herself for her
upcoming wiretap trial.
Lewinsky, on the other
hand, is undergoing a less drastic transformation as she slims downas is appropriate
for a spokeswoman for the Jenny Craig weight-loss programme.
Notably, both women, one
is reminded, have been vilified as much for their looks as for their indiscretions.
However, as the author of the write-up pertinently points out, neither the media nor
the public felt entitled to make fun of the looks of Bill Clinton, Kenneth Starr or Newt
Gingrich. Very true.
Indeed, neither did Jay
Leno take to task the many comb-overs or rumpled shirts of the Republican
House, So also that: Fashion magazines didnt offer Starr lessons on
starched shirts or more attractive eyeglasses, Touche.
As per California
psychiatrist, Harold H. Bloomfield, making fun of Tripps and Lewinskys
looks is, in part, societys way of punishing them for breaking the taboos of
adultery and betrayal.
According to him:
Men could be ugly beasts, but they have the resources...The only way women could
begin to control the resources was by being beautiful. That doesnt excuse it. We
have to transcend it.
In America high school
girls are still getting that message: You better look beautiful if you want to have a
great life. The only women who have been able to transcend these superficial
standards are what, one is told, author Laura Fraser calls honorary men
powerful older women such as Secretary of State Madeleine Albright and Attorney
General Janet Reno.
Also interesting is this
bit of Americana. Almost every woman touched by the Clinton scandals has had a
public redo of some kind. Jones had her nose changed. Even Hillary Rodham Clinton went
through a variety of hairstyles before settling into her current simple hairdo...
By tackling their
personal appearances especially their weight-so publicly, Tripp and Lewinsky are
connecting with the public in an empathetic way. Think of Oprah Winfrey, one of the most
powerful women in America, who has endeared herself to TV viewers, partly with her public
battles with weight loss.
FOOTNOTES: Apparently,
losing weight in a connective thread in American culture. As Fraser theorises: We
equate being overweight with being immoral. We immediately associated being overweight
with greed, sensuality and just too much.
Incidentally, while on
the slimmer and much-chastened Lewinsky, who was recently interviewed on Larry King Live,
it may be in order to recall her hope that as time goes by, her role would become a
shorter and shorter footnote in US history.
That, I believe, is a
hope that is not likely to be fulfilled since that particular footnote
entailed a historic, and very costly, impeachment not to mention that it almost drove a US
president out of office.
Here it may be germane to
recall that more than a decade ago, the prospect of Gary Hart, a promising presidential
candidate, was ruined by a pro-election scandal that surfaced when the American media
displayed photos of Hart with curvaceous, scantily-clad Donna Rice on this lap, together
with a story on how the spent the night on Harts Yacht.
Hart, as we know, had to
bow out of public life while Rice went into hiding for eight years. When she resurfaced in
1995, she said: After the scandal, I resolved to see all the devastation in my life
used in a positive way for something bigger than me.
Although like Monica, she
confessed to awesome mistakes, she turned down publishers offers to
write a kiss-and-tell version against cyber-pornography which is rampant on the Internet
in America.
That only recalls that
John Profumo, minister in Harold Macmillans cabinet in Britain, after resigning in
the wake of the Christine Keeler sex scandal in 1963 spent the rest of his life working
for the uplift of the poor in Londons East End.
CHANGE IN IRAN: A
sartorial change in Iran was the focus of an interesting soft story disseminated by AFP
the other day. What was the change? That Iranian men, or, at least, some of them, are
starting to were the necktie, long banned as a symbol of Western decadence and still
criticized today.
While one is told that
doctors, manufacturers, lawyers and increasingly businessmen are sporting ties and that
no one turned around any more at the sight, and tie owners are no longer afraid to
wear them, however any Iranian official wearing one still faces expulsion. Having
met scores of tie-less Iranian during my stint at the UN, I can vouch for the political
significance of the reappearance of the necktie in Islamic Iran! |